Wednesday, September 12, 2007

Sugasm 96

Sugasm #96

September 12th, 2007 by Vixen | Last modified: September 12th, 2007

Jewell Marceau courtesy of My Fetish Diary.

The best of this week’s blogs by the bloggers who blog them. Highlighting the top 3 posts as chosen by Sugasm participants. Want in Sugasm #97? Submit a link to your best post of the week using this form. Participants, repost the link list within a week and you’re all set.Note: Sam’s been working on the Sugasm and it looks like our glitches are fixed. To get the post requests on time you’ll need to subscribe to the Sugasm RSS.This Week’s Picks

Tips and Sugestions on having sex with me.

“I’m a slut, but I’m an ethical one.”

Wet
“You can smell this wet. It glistens on my thighs.”

A Brief Meeting with the Girl Next Door
“You can pay me by teaching me how you like to be licked.”

Mr. Sugasm Himself
Stacked Decks

Editor’s Choice
Concentration?

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Thoughts on Sex and Relationships
Beautiful
How To Set Up a MFF/FMF Threesome (and Live)
“Sexual Fantasy # 1″ : For Art’s Sake!”
Tara’s Private Diary: Guilty Pleasures
“We’re just good friends”

NSFW Pics & Videos
Half-Nekkid Footballer
A Jewell in bondage, pantyhose and latex
Pagan Lust
Pamela Anderson Showing Thong in See Through White Clothes
Valerie Vasquez Nude

Erotic Writing and Experiences
Hot House pt. 1
The Missing Sex Scene: Superman
Now
Syncronicity
Theater
To the ground floor
Vivid memories, solo vacation edition

Sex News & Satire
The Great Porn Debate
Half-Nekkid Schoolgirl
Retro Sex Blog Turns 1 Year Old!
What if…? Suzanne’s story

BDSM & Fetish
Catalina loves Sexual Fantasies
Center peace
Full Circle - Part II
Good morning little schoolgirl
Hair
Ring

Sex Work
Labor Day - but not for sex workers?

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Wednesday, September 5, 2007

Sugasm 95

Sugasm #95
September 3rd, 2007 by Vixen | Last modified: September 4th, 2007

The best of this week’s blogs by the bloggers who blog them. Highlighting the top 3 posts as chosen by Sugasm participants. Want in Sugasm #96? Submit a link to your best post of the week using this form. Participants, repost the link list within a week and you’re all set.

This Week’s Picks

Cuffed
“She could see that he had something concealed in his other hand, but couldn’t quite tell whether it would be an instrument of torture or pleasure.”

Lunch Hour
“He’s very good, but I notice the almost imperceptible start as he notices what’s going on.”

About size
“But if we’re going to start talking about penis size, then it is only fair to talk about vagina size.”

Mr. Sugasm Himself
“Men on a Mission” Calendar 2008

Editor’s Choice
The S Spot Sexy Short Story Competition!

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BDSM & Fetish
Abstract Question
Crimson Pain
Etched with Love (Anniversary pt 1)
Half-Nekkid in America
Happy HNT - Rope bondage paddling
His Cane, His Gown, His Mortarboard
Master and Slave
On becoming a small letter person
Pagan preaches…
Sex and Money
Spankings and Cupcakes….
Want To Learn How To Do Figging?

Sex Humor
Mystery Sex Toys

Erotic Writing and Experiences
Ace and Idiot
The beauty stops by
Brothers friend..what a night to remember.
Drenched
Finger Fucking Friday
Grey
Holding Pattern
MFF
No reservations, part 3
Welcome back….

NSFW Pics & Videos
Half-Nekkid Fetishist
Lilya in polka dots
Perla | Voluptueux (errotica archives)
Petter Hegre’s Fantasy Island
Ron Harris’s Latest Erotic Photo and Video

Sex Work
Do I Kiss & Tell? (Or, Why Sex Pros Make Better Bloggers)
Sex Work And Religion: Sacred Pussy, Controlled Womb

Thoughts on Sex and Relationships
The Brick Wall Statement
Being out vs Being out there
MisQuote The Craig, Evermore
More On “Hiding in Plain Sight”
The Scientific Desires

Sex News & Reviews
Ivy Intimate Touch Palm Massager Review
Pick me, pick me!

Wednesday, August 29, 2007

Roll Back

I went to my daughter's school yesterday for a meeting with the Director of the school and her future teacher. While awaiting our appointment, things seemed a bit, um....breezy. After a few instances of feeling air in a place I shouldn't, I discovered that my fly was open. No big deal, but I'll add a few wrinkles (pun intended a little.) I was going commando. I get brazilian waxed. So, a gap in the pants in my case might be a little more revealing than a typical situation. I had visions of posters of my face hanging up all around the school that say, "If you see this person, call 911."

So, that's pretty much where it starts. Waxing. I'm kind of obsessed. I've always been turned on by a hairless pussy - not much in the world more beautiful than that. The pubic mound - the swell low on the abdomen - absolutely beautiful.

My wife went for a bikini wax and after going a couple times, took the plunge and got a brazilian. A brazilian wax has some different meanings, but I mean no hair left from navel to tailbone - I prefer no "landing strip." Well, the result was an epiphany. The slickness is fabulous, the sensation amazing, enough that I got geeked up about going for it myself.
I didn't think about it for long, made an appointment and before I knew it, I was opening the door and walking in. I'll save the detail for a later post, the process is actually pretty comical and my nerves were shot. But for today, I'll say the results are spectacular. Not just physical sensation, but it became a means for my wife and I to talk about new things, new sensations, and now, a revitalization of our sex life and a bit of an awakening for us as individuals (I know, corny.) It gives us an excuse to talk about what feels great, what feels different, etc. We enjoy each other more often, more tenderly, just more everything.

Individually, I am simply more aware of myself than I've ever been - a great feeling. And secure, in a new kind of way. At first, I was pretty wigged out about how people might think of me differently if they knew I got my balls waxed, now...don't care so much. Actually, maybe slightly the converse - I kind of like the idea of people being a little tripped out. Ok, I guess I care, to be honest, but I'm getting better about caring less.

So, this revitalization has led me a few places - a little quiet exhibitionism, toys, g-spots, nasty pictures (not quite ready to reveal those yet!,) and a lot of thinking/talking about sex. And here I am. Exposing a bit more.

Monday, August 27, 2007

Not really intriguing.

The blog title is not poor grammar...I'm actually not intriguing, but I'm definitely intrigued. I thought I'd give this a go. I've never had a diary - never felt the need to record things for myself. It's dawned on me lately though, that I'm intrigued by the idea of exploring what's on my mind in a way that allows me to be exposed without jeopardy. Well, here I am - a depository of thoughts anonymously hidden for all to see. The risk of someone reading this is the turn on - the fact it's available makes my heart race, but it's not an ego thing. I guess, by definition, if one writes a blog, there is some ego involved. But, at this point, it doesn't matter to me whether anybody reads this - maybe later it will.

So, why do it? I guess I'm not sure yet...there is something going on in my head (a good change) unthreatening to my normal life, and maybe worth exploring. Hrm..."normal life." Well, I'm a professional, well respected within the profession and within my firm. But, those that know me, know that is not what is important to me. Perhaps, throughout my posts, we'll figure out what is. I'm in my late 30's and pretty geeky. Never really thought of myself as attractive, and realizing it's mostly because I've never had to think about it. And, believe me, it's not because I have ever had women falling all over me. I just don't have a good sense of how others consider my looks. Maybe we'll get into that later, too.

The intention here is to let loose a bit, which, seems to mean sexual exploration lately. I've crossed a few boundaries lately, and I kind of like it. I remain faithful to myself and those that I love - that won't change. But, like this little diary, I've been stepping beyond myself a bit. A little naughtiness has been pretty damn fun, so exploring (did I mean "exposing?") a little here is part of the game. The rules aren't written yet, but right now, I consider this space fair game. Explicit? A little. Photos? Maybe. Naughtiness? Yep.

I'm Intrigued